I expected them to listen!

Another reason why I prefer writing (mainly nowadays though its hard to implement that "prefer-ness") is that not all people will listen to you.

You got story and youre planning to share em to your friends. How can you know they would listen?? Even A BESTFRIEND EVER, you have a chance to not be listened. Its not a fifty-fifty chance, It could be 80 to 20 chance for not be listened and be listened.

I have this one friend that I really proud of. Im brave enough to mention her name. NITA YUNITA. She is one of my bestfriends. She is a best listener EVER (best listener definition: You listen and you response; Response is not equal as solve). NONE of my stories that she didnt listen to. I like her. Good listener is good person I assume. I dont expect people to solve my stories, Im happy if people listen to me and response like they are excited to know more. Nita respects her friends.

So I realize something that is really important to me. I was not (or I am not) a really good listener. Now I am trying to be. Why? I have been in this situation when a friend of mine (SHE) did not listen to me. It SUCKS. I was like "FUCK YOU!" It felt like she did not respect me at all. The thing is, I ALWAYS listen to every single stories that she shares.

Im literally saying that I want people respect me when I DO RESPECT them. Its a mutual-life-things, you feel upset when somebody is using you- you help them when they need you, but they dont help you when you need them.


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